For me, if I am visiting my family, the point is to get to know each other again and catch up.
So, here I am on vacation, enjoying my family.
My two youngest children really enjoyed chasing a leaf down a little stream with the cousins. Did I get a picture? Of course not. I'm on vacation. In the town of Aspen, Colorado there is a sidewalk fountain that changes height. No charge for maximum fun. One hour of dodging water, memories for a lifetime. Did we get pictures? Yes.
So, my vacation is going fine. My family is having a good time. That's what it's all about.